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Swingers clubs and dating platforms in the Netherlands

The Netherlands has an active scene that extends beyond Amsterdam, offering many club nights and events across regions like Rotterdam, Utrecht, Limburg, and Groningen. While the club side offers various venues, a significant part of the experience comes from organizer-led events that may rotate locations. Each venue or event sets its own guest rules and tone, so checking details before a visit is always useful.

Last checked: 2026-07-07
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14 Confirmed clubs & venues
37 Options to confirm
4 Dating platform options

Map and approximate locations

Markers show approximate public location data. Always confirm the venue, address and event details directly before travelling.

Confirmed clubs and venues

Confirmed Swingers club Accessible for singles Swimming pool Sauna availability unknown BDSM availability unknown Alcohol served Membership policy unknown Booking requirement unknown

Fun4Two

Large, well-documented Moordrecht swingers club with official 2026 events, reservation/ticket information and all-inclusive positioning.

Type
Swingers club
Location
Moordrecht / Gouda-Rotterdam area
Fixed location
Yes
Guest policy
Mainly couples
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site Show on map
Confirmed Erotic adult club Accessible for singles Pool availability unknown Sauna Alcohol served No membership required

Fata-Morgana

Large Muiden erotic club close to Amsterdam, with official current events, no solo men policy and all-inclusive facilities.

Type
Erotic adult club
Location
Muiden / Amsterdam area
Fixed location
Yes
Guest policy
Couples single women
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site Show on map
Confirmed Swingers club Accessible for singles Swimming pool Sauna BDSM area Membership policy unknown Drop-in ok

Club Paradise

Amsterdam club with official opening hours, 2026 event listings and facilities; useful but check exact night and drink/entry rules.

Type
Swingers club
Location
Amsterdam Noord
Fixed location
Yes
Guest policy
Couples and singles
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site Show on map
Confirmed Swingers club Singles admission policy unknown Pool availability unknown Sauna BDSM area Bar service unknown Membership policy unknown Booking requirement unknown

Club Showboat

Moored-boat swingers club in Zaandijk with official current opening times, event listings, sauna/steam/BDSM facilities and parking/contact details.

Type
Swingers club
Location
Zaandijk / Amsterdam-Haarlem area
Fixed location
Yes
Guest policy
Couples and singles
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site Show on map
Confirmed Swingers club Singles admission policy unknown Swimming pool Sauna availability unknown BDSM availability unknown Alcohol served Membership policy unknown Drop-in ok

Parenclub Mystique

Rucphen swingers club with official agenda, prices, option pages, English/German visitor information and fixed address.

Type
Swingers club
Location
Rucphen / Breda-Roosendaal-Zeeland corridor
Fixed location
Yes
Guest policy
Couples and singles
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site Show on map
Confirmed Swingers club Accessible for singles Pool availability unknown Sauna availability unknown BDSM availability unknown Alcohol served Membership policy unknown Drop-in ok

Parenclub Sabayland

Small Dedemsvaart parenclub with official current Saturday opening and contact/reservation details.

Type
Swingers club
Location
Dedemsvaart / Overijssel
Fixed location
Yes
Guest policy
Couples and singles
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site Show on map
Confirmed Couples club Accessible for singles Pool availability unknown Sauna availability unknown BDSM availability unknown Alcohol served Membership policy unknown Drop-in ok

Parenclub Le Baron A2

Heerewaarden parenclub with official address, daily opening schedule and mixed couples/singles access.

Type
Couples club
Location
Heerewaarden / Gelderland
Fixed location
Yes
Guest policy
Couples and singles
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site Show on map
Confirmed Couples club Accessible for singles Pool availability unknown Sauna availability unknown BDSM availability unknown Bar service unknown Membership policy unknown Drop-in ok

Parenclub Devils & Angels

Susteren parenclub supported by official information page plus Partyflock, SDC and JOYclub details; check the exact event before visiting.

Type
Couples club
Location
Susteren / Limburg
Fixed location
Yes
Guest policy
Couples and singles
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site Show on map
Confirmed Swingers club Singles admission policy unknown Pool availability unknown Sauna availability unknown BDSM availability unknown Alcohol served Membership policy unknown Drop-in ok

Ultimate Dream

Beek en Donk swingersclub with official current site, opening times, prices, facilities and contact details.

Type
Swingers club
Location
Beek en Donk / Noord-Brabant
Fixed location
Yes
Guest policy
Couples and singles
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site Show on map
Confirmed Swingers club Singles on selected nights Pool availability unknown Sauna availability unknown BDSM availability unknown Alcohol served Membership policy unknown Drop-in ok

Eroroma Adult & Swingers Club

Zwinderen swingers club with official 2026 agenda, address and contact details.

Type
Swingers club
Location
Zwinderen / Drenthe
Fixed location
Yes
Guest policy
Couples and singles
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site Show on map
Confirmed Swingers club Accessible for singles Pool availability unknown Sauna BDSM availability unknown Alcohol served No membership required Drop-in ok

Club Luxoria

Wagenborgen/Groningen province swingers club with official Luxoria page and JOYclub listing; appears to replace or supersede older Inn4Love-style directory references.

Type
Swingers club
Location
Wagenborgen / Groningen
Fixed location
Yes
Guest policy
Couples and singles
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site Show on map
Confirmed Couples club Singles admission policy unknown Pool availability unknown Sauna availability unknown BDSM availability unknown Bar service unknown Membership policy unknown Drop-in ok

Pleasure2Gether

Sittard parenclub with official site details plus current directory, registry and platform-map details for address, phone, website and Friday/Saturday opening.

Type
Couples club
Location
Sittard / Limburg
Fixed location
Yes
Guest policy
Couples and singles
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site Show on map
Confirmed Swingers club Singles on selected nights Membership policy unknown Drop-in ok

Swingers Oase

Ammerzoden swingersclub with official active site, current event copy, reservation contact and couples/ladies focus. Check exact event rules and limited single-men access before visiting.

Type
Swingers club
Location
Ammerzoden / Gelderland
Fixed location
Yes
Guest policy
Couples, single women and selected men
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site Show on map
Confirmed Couples club Accessible for singles Pool availability unknown Sauna BDSM availability unknown Alcohol served Membership policy unknown Drop-in ok

Parenclub Monique

Wieringerwerf parenclub with official address/agenda guidance plus JOYclub and registry-style details. Check agenda-listed club nights before travelling.

Type
Couples club
Location
Wieringerwerf / Noord-Holland
Fixed location
Yes
Guest policy
Couples and singles
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site Show on map

Worth checking, but confirm first

Worth checking Adult bar swinger option Accessible for singles Pool availability unknown Sauna availability unknown BDSM area Alcohol served Membership policy unknown Drop-in ok

Sameplace

Erotic or swinger-friendly bar option, not a full club. Treat it as a social venue and verify expectations directly.

Type
Adult bar swinger option
Location
Amsterdam
Fixed location
Yes
Guest policy
Couples and singles
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site
Worth checking Swinger-relevant erotic estate Singles admission policy unknown Pool availability unknown Sauna availability unknown BDSM availability unknown Alcohol served Membership policy unknown Drop-in ok

Landgoed De Zaar

This is adult or kink-adjacent, not a full club. Confirm the current format, guest policy and rules directly before choosing it.

Type
Swinger-relevant erotic estate
Location
Grubbenvorst / Venlo
Fixed location
Yes
Guest policy
Couples and singles
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site
Check before you go Mixed adult sauna Singles on selected nights Pool availability unknown Sauna availability unknown BDSM availability unknown Bar service unknown Membership policy unknown Booking requirement unknown

Sauna Javali

The available details point to a Heerhugowaard sauna with mixed men/women opening on Friday and Saturday. Treat it as adjacent sauna/wellness option, not a dedicated swingersclub, and confirm the exact format directly.

Type
Mixed adult sauna
Location
Heerhugowaard / Noord-Holland
Fixed location
Yes
Guest policy
Event specific
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site
Check before you go Adult cinema maze Singles on selected nights Pool availability unknown Sauna availability unknown BDSM availability unknown Bar service unknown Membership policy unknown Drop-in ok

MAZE Den Haag

The available details point to a Den Haag sexshop with an erotic maze/cinema, address and opening hours. Treat it as adjacent adult-cinema/cruising option only, not a swingerclub or couples event option.

Type
Adult cinema maze
Location
Den Haag
Fixed location
Yes
Guest policy
Event specific
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site
Worth checking Event location Singles on selected nights Pool availability unknown Sauna availability unknown BDSM area Alcohol served Membership policy unknown

Club Organza

Official agenda recheck confirms active 2026 event-host status, including Party40Down and Kinky Paradise dates. Treat Organza as an active host/location and event option, not as a standalone daily swingersclub.

Type
Event location
Location
Maarssen / Utrecht area
Fixed location
Yes
Guest policy
Event specific
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site
Check before you go Mixed adult sauna Singles on selected nights Pool availability unknown Sauna availability unknown BDSM availability unknown Bar service unknown Membership policy unknown Drop-in ok

Paren Sauna Joe

The available details show Sauna Joe Kerkrade opening hours with all-gender Tuesday and women welcome Monday/Wednesday evenings. Treat it as an adjacent sauna option; those details are not specific enough to call it a classic dedicated swingersclub.

Type
Mixed adult sauna
Location
Kerkrade / Limburg
Fixed location
Yes
Guest policy
Event specific
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site
Check before you go Event organizer Accessible for singles Pool availability unknown Sauna availability unknown BDSM availability unknown Bar service unknown Membership policy unknown Booking requirement unknown

Party40Down

Swinger party option for couples and single women under 40, with SDC updates and rotating locations. Treat it as an event option, not a separate fixed club.

Type
Event organizer
Location
Breukelen / Utrecht area (Club Organza events)
Fixed location
Yes
Guest policy
Couples single women
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site
Check before you go Event organizer Singles admission policy unknown Pool availability unknown Sauna availability unknown BDSM availability unknown Bar service unknown Membership policy unknown Booking requirement unknown

Secret Desire

Upscale private-event option for couples and single ladies at special/private locations. Treat it as event-only because exact location and event dates need direct confirmation.

Type
Event organizer
Location
Utrecht / private event locations
Fixed location
Yes
Guest policy
Couples single women
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site
Check before you go Event organizer Singles admission policy unknown Membership policy unknown Booking requirement unknown

SDC World Party

Large periodic private event at Time Out/Gemert with SDC and Crazyland host details. The captured edition was 11 April 2026, so recheck for the next edition before making travel decisions.

Type
Event organizer
Location
Gemert / Noord-Brabant
Fixed location
Yes
Guest policy
Mainly couples
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site
Check before you go Event organizer Singles admission policy unknown Pool availability unknown Sauna availability unknown BDSM availability unknown Bar service unknown Membership policy unknown Booking requirement unknown

Secret Underground

Fetish/open-minded event option with Club Paradise history. The captured May 2026 date has passed, so confirm a future edition before relying on it.

Type
Event organizer
Location
Amsterdam / Club Paradise events
Fixed location
Yes
Guest policy
Event specific
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site
Check before you go Event organizer Accessible for singles Swimming pool Sauna BDSM availability unknown Alcohol served Membership policy unknown Drop-in ok

Event Lounge

Open-minded event option with PartyPlayers/Lelystad history. The 2026 details are time-sensitive, so confirm the host venue and date directly.

Type
Event organizer
Location
Lelystad / Amsterdam event option
Fixed location
Yes
Guest policy
Couples single women
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site
Check before you go Event organizer Singles on selected nights Pool availability unknown Sauna availability unknown BDSM availability unknown Alcohol served Membership policy unknown Drop-in ok

The Pineapple Club / Bar Dates Breda

A 21+ open-minded community with Bar Dates and a member-only spicy flagship concept. Confirm current events directly because it is membership/event-focused and the public page also showed unrelated footer links.

Type
Event organizer
Location
Breda / Noord-Brabant
Fixed location
Yes
Guest policy
Event specific
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site
Check before you go Event organizer Accessible for singles Pool availability unknown Sauna availability unknown BDSM availability unknown Bar service unknown Membership policy unknown

Let us be Curious / Luxuria Events

High-end erotic event option for open-minded couples at private Dutch locations, with invitation, membership and privacy rules. Not a fixed venue.

Type
Event organizer
Location
Private locations in the Netherlands
Fixed location
Yes
Guest policy
Mainly couples
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site
Check before you go Event organizer Singles admission policy unknown Pool availability unknown Sauna availability unknown BDSM availability unknown Bar service unknown Membership policy unknown Booking requirement unknown

Secret Mask / Stiletto Club

Erotic dance-party option under Secret Mask / Stiletto Club in the Netherlands and Belgium. Confirm the current agenda directly before relying on it.

Type
Event organizer
Location
Netherlands / Belgium; Tilburg events
Fixed location
Yes
Guest policy
Event specific
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site
Check before you go Event organizer Singles on selected nights Pool availability unknown Sauna availability unknown BDSM availability unknown Alcohol served Membership policy unknown Drop-in ok

FlaMigo Events

Open-minded themed event option with 2026 Burning Girl near Breda/Galder and Stiletto/Mixed Party date details. Not a fixed swingersclub.

Type
Event organizer
Location
Tilburg, Breda and wider Brabant event option
Fixed location
Yes
Guest policy
Event specific
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site
Check before you go Event organizer Accessible for singles Pool availability unknown Sauna availability unknown BDSM availability unknown Membership policy unknown Drop-in ok

Big Little Secrets

Member/event option at special locations, with Big Little Temple listed for 6 June 2026 and prior event history. Not a daily club.

Type
Event organizer
Location
Amsterdam and changing special locations
Fixed location
Yes
Guest policy
Couples single women
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site
Check before you go Fetish event Singles admission policy unknown Pool availability unknown Sauna availability unknown BDSM availability unknown Bar service unknown Membership policy unknown Booking requirement unknown

Wasteland

Major fetish/fantasy event option with multiple 2026 Netherlands dates and venues. Not a swingerclub or normal club-night option.

Type
Fetish event
Location
Amsterdam / Netherlands event option
Fixed location
Yes
Guest policy
Event specific
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site
Check before you go Event organizer Singles on selected nights Pool availability unknown Sauna availability unknown BDSM availability unknown Alcohol served Membership policy unknown Drop-in ok

Crazyland / Lustparty

Sexy/open-minded event brand with active 2026 Crazyland/B.I.T.C.H/Crazy Wonderland schedule and current news. Not a fixed club.

Type
Event organizer
Location
Netherlands event option
Fixed location
Yes
Guest policy
Event specific
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site
Check before you go Event organizer Singles admission policy unknown Pool availability unknown Sauna availability unknown BDSM availability unknown Bar service unknown Membership policy unknown Booking requirement unknown

Madame Homard

Open-minded dance/event option with 2026 Eyes Wide Shut editions and Madame Homard organiser details at exclusive locations. Not a swingerclub.

Type
Event organizer
Location
Special locations in the Netherlands and Europe
Fixed location
Yes
Guest policy
Mainly couples
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site
Check before you go Event organizer Accessible for singles Pool availability unknown Sauna availability unknown BDSM availability unknown Bar service unknown Membership policy unknown Drop-in ok

Little Sins

Exclusive adults-only event option for couples at special Dutch locations, with 2026 event details. Treat it as an event option, not a fixed club; verify exact edition, secret location and ticket rules.

Type
Event organizer
Location
Private/special locations in the Netherlands
Fixed location
Yes
Guest policy
Mainly couples
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site
Check before you go Fetish event Singles admission policy unknown Pool availability unknown Sauna availability unknown BDSM availability unknown Alcohol served Membership policy unknown Booking requirement unknown

Fetishdreamz

Northern fetish/open-minded option with SDC/Partyflock 2026 details, but the official page still showed an October 2025 Groningen date. Confirm a future official date directly.

Type
Fetish event
Location
Groningen / Amsterdam event option
Fixed location
Yes
Guest policy
Event specific
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site
Check before you go Event organizer Accessible for singles Membership policy unknown

BackToBasic

Swingers-by-swingers party option for couples and single ladies. Treat it as an event option, not a fixed club; verify each date, host location and SDC guest list.

Type
Event organizer
Location
Breukelen / rotating Dutch event locations
Fixed location
Varies
Guest policy
Mainly couples
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site
Check before you go Private members event Accessible for singles Pool availability unknown Sauna availability unknown BDSM availability unknown Bar service unknown Membership policy unknown

Be Privileged

Private open-minded membership event option for couples and single ladies. The FAQ says sex is not allowed, so it must stay caveated as an elegant open-minded event, not a swingersclub.

Type
Private members event
Location
Secret Netherlands and Belgium locations
Fixed location
Varies
Guest policy
Mainly couples
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site
Check before you go Event organizer Singles on selected nights Pool availability unknown Sauna availability unknown BDSM availability unknown Bar service unknown Membership policy unknown Drop-in ok

Hot Coco & Cream Party / Beyonders Events

Professional BBC/private party option for ladies, couples and selected men, with Dutch and Belgian event locations. Verify exact edition, host club and drinks/all-in rules.

Type
Event organizer
Location
Netherlands and Belgium event locations
Fixed location
Varies
Guest policy
Event specific
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site
Check before you go Event organizer Singles on selected nights Pool availability unknown Sauna availability unknown BDSM availability unknown Bar service unknown Membership policy unknown Drop-in ok

Erofeestjes

Active erotic party organization for swingers and singles with a public agenda and Club Organza host-location details. Treat it as an event option, not a separate fixed club.

Type
Event organizer
Location
Club Organza / central Netherlands
Fixed location
Yes
Guest policy
Event specific
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site
Check before you go Event organizer Accessible for singles Pool availability unknown Sauna availability unknown BDSM availability unknown Bar service unknown Membership policy unknown

Naughty Naughty Events

Private members-only private event option for couples and selected single women in rotating Dutch venues. Verify official application and guest-list rules before you choose it.

Type
Event organizer
Location
Rotating private venues across the Netherlands
Fixed location
Varies
Guest policy
Mainly couples
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site
Check before you go Event organizer Singles admission policy unknown Pool availability unknown Sauna availability unknown BDSM availability unknown Bar service unknown Membership policy unknown Drop-in ok

Lilicious

Curated sensual event option for open-minded couples and single ladies with SDC listing. Confirm directly because current public event dates are not explicit enough.

Type
Event organizer
Location
North Holland / curated venues
Fixed location
Varies
Guest policy
Mainly couples
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site
Check before you go Event organizer Singles admission policy unknown Pool availability unknown Sauna availability unknown Membership policy unknown Drop-in ok

Sensual Players

Erotic dance-party option for couples and single women; SDC says the organization was restarting with a smaller annual event rhythm. Verify the current calendar and host venue.

Type
Event organizer
Location
Almere / Utrecht / rotating Dutch locations
Fixed location
Varies
Guest policy
Mainly couples
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site
Check before you go Adult community events Singles admission policy unknown Pool availability unknown Sauna availability unknown BDSM availability unknown Bar service unknown Membership policy unknown Booking requirement unknown

Edensire

Edensire is a discreet adult matching and event community across the Netherlands, Belgium and Germany, with examples in Amsterdam and Rotterdam. Useful community/event option, not a fixed venue.

Type
Adult community events
Location
Netherlands, Belgium and Germany matching/events option
Fixed location
Varies
Guest policy
Event specific
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site
Check before you go Private members event Accessible for singles Pool availability unknown Sauna availability unknown BDSM availability unknown Bar service unknown Membership policy unknown Booking requirement unknown

OPIUM Amsterdam

Couples/single-ladies Club Paradise event concept. The public event page is from December 2025, so treat it as private-event details until a future public date appears.

Type
Private members event
Location
Amsterdam / Club Paradise and private event detailss
Fixed location
Varies
Guest policy
Mainly couples
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site
Check before you go Fetish event Singles admission policy unknown Pool availability unknown Sauna availability unknown BDSM availability unknown Bar service unknown Membership policy unknown Booking requirement unknown

Kinky Paradise

Official agenda recheck lists future dates from October 2026 through April 2027. Strong current event-option details; still an event brand/hosted party rather than a fixed club.

Type
Fetish event
Location
Club Organza / PartyPlayers-Lelystad event history
Fixed location
Varies
Guest policy
Event specific
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site
Check before you go Fetish event Singles on selected nights Pool availability unknown Sauna availability unknown BDSM availability unknown Alcohol served Membership policy unknown Drop-in ok

Kinky On The Beach

Kinky On The Beach has 2026 DS Event Center/Culemborg date details and is framed as a kinky event where swingers also attend. Treat it as an event option, not a daily swingersclub.

Type
Fetish event
Location
DS Event Center Culemborg / Netherlands
Fixed location
Yes
Guest policy
Event specific
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site
Check before you go Fetish event Singles on selected nights Pool availability unknown Sauna BDSM area Alcohol served Membership policy unknown Drop-in ok

Clinic Party

Clinic Party has event history and 2026 references, but captured public dates were mostly past by 2026-05-30. Confirm directly as a fetish/T-girl event option.

Type
Fetish event
Location
Showboat Zaandijk / Amsterdam event history
Fixed location
Varies
Guest policy
Event specific
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site
Check before you go Event organizer Accessible for singles Membership policy unknown Drop-in ok

XOTIQ

Partyflock recheck confirms the 28 February 2026 XOTIQ event at PartyPlayers Lelystad, but no future public date was captured during the latest check. Treat it as historical event details and confirm directly before you choose it.

Type
Event organizer
Location
PartyPlayers Lelystad / XOTIQ event option
Fixed location
Varies
Guest policy
Mainly couples
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site
Check before you go Private members event Singles on selected nights Swimming pool Sauna BDSM availability unknown Alcohol served Membership policy unknown Drop-in ok

De Befbaars

Private Haarlem meeting option with checks and 2026 event entries. Treat it as a private option needing direct confirmation, not a normal public club.

Type
Private members event
Location
Haarlem Waarderpolder private meeting option
Fixed location
Varies
Guest policy
Event specific
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site
Check before you go Erotic dance event Singles admission policy unknown Pool availability unknown Sauna availability unknown BDSM availability unknown Bar service unknown Membership policy unknown Booking requirement unknown

Nachtboetiek

Nachtboetiek/Full Moon has active 2026 event messaging, and SDC frames it as a seductive Amsterdam-area event organizer. Treat it as a broad sexy dance/event option, not swinger-specific.

Type
Erotic dance event
Location
Amsterdam / Spaarnwoude event locations
Fixed location
Varies
Guest policy
Event specific
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site
Check before you go Event organizer Singles on selected nights Pool availability unknown Sauna availability unknown BDSM availability unknown Bar service unknown Membership policy unknown Drop-in ok

Sublime De Luxe / Secrets de Luxe

Event organization with a Secrets de Luxe open-minded label and SDC listing. Treat it as an event option needing direct confirmation, not as a fixed club.

Type
Event organizer
Location
South Holland / unique Dutch event locations
Fixed location
Varies
Guest policy
Event specific
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site

Probably closed or inactive

Probably closed or inactive Swingers club Singles admission policy unknown Pool availability unknown Sauna availability unknown BDSM availability unknown Bar service unknown Membership policy unknown Booking requirement unknown

PartyPlayers

The operator page now lists this as definitively closed. Do not rely on this as an active club.

Type
Swingers club
Location
Lelystad
Fixed location
Yes
Guest policy
Couples and singles
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site
Probably closed or inactive Swingers club Singles on selected nights Pool availability unknown Sauna availability unknown BDSM availability unknown Membership policy unknown Drop-in ok

Kasteel Waterloo

JOYclub states Kasteel Waterloo expectations permanent closure from 1 April 2026. Do not treat it as a normal current option after that date.

Type
Swingers club
Location
Beesel / Limburg
Fixed location
Yes
Guest policy
Event specific
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site
Probably closed or inactive Swingers club Singles admission policy unknown Pool availability unknown Sauna availability unknown BDSM availability unknown Bar service unknown Membership policy unknown Booking requirement unknown

Swingers Dream

Closed-name warning: Partyflock marks Swingers Dream as closed, and public news reported the Waterhuizen venue destroyed by fire in 2019.

Type
Swingers club
Location
Waterhuizen / Groningen
Fixed location
Yes
Guest policy
Event specific
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site
Probably closed or inactive Couples club Singles on selected nights Swimming pool Sauna BDSM area Alcohol served Membership policy unknown

Parenclub Wilpenhof

Closed-name warning for Gelderland/Apeldoorn searches: parenclub sources say Wilpenhof is closed, likely definitively.

Type
Couples club
Location
Wilp / Gelderland
Fixed location
Yes
Guest policy
Event specific
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site
Probably closed or inactive Former couples club Singles admission policy unknown Pool availability unknown Sauna availability unknown BDSM availability unknown Bar service unknown Membership policy unknown Booking requirement unknown

SwingFun4You

Closed-name warning for Den Haag searches: a parenclub source states SwingFun4You has permanently closed.

Type
Former couples club
Location
Den Haag / Zuid-Holland
Fixed location
Yes
Guest policy
Event specific
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site
Probably closed or inactive Former couples club Singles on selected nights Pool availability unknown Sauna availability unknown BDSM availability unknown Bar service unknown Membership policy unknown Drop-in ok

Parenclub Inn Joy

Closed-name warning for Budel/Noord-Brabant searches: official Inn Joy hours currently show every day closed and secondary parenclub sources say the club has closed.

Type
Former couples club
Location
Budel / Noord-Brabant
Fixed location
Yes
Guest policy
Event specific
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site
Probably closed or inactive Former couples club Singles on selected nights Pool availability unknown Sauna BDSM availability unknown Membership policy unknown Drop-in ok

Parenclub Amourette

Closed-name warning for Maarssen/Utrecht searches: a public parenclub archive says Amourette is no longer open and probably will not reopen.

Type
Former couples club
Location
Maarssen / Utrecht
Fixed location
Yes
Guest policy
Event specific
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site
Probably closed or inactive Former erotic cafe / couples club Singles admission policy unknown Pool availability unknown Sauna availability unknown BDSM availability unknown Bar service unknown Membership policy unknown Booking requirement unknown

Secret Dreams Emmen

Closed-name warning: Secret Dreams at Kapitein Grantstraat Emmen is no longer active, and 2020 news says the erotic cafe/parenclub would not reopen after corona closure.

Type
Former erotic cafe / couples club
Location
Emmen / Drenthe
Fixed location
Yes
Guest policy
Event specific
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site
Probably closed or inactive Former swingers club Singles admission policy unknown Pool availability unknown Sauna availability unknown BDSM availability unknown Bar service unknown Membership policy unknown Booking requirement unknown

Candyclub Amsterdam

Historic Amsterdam old-name warning: Candyclub has archive/location references but no future Partyflock agenda, and a business directory says it closed in 2011 and did not reopen.

Type
Former swingers club
Location
Amsterdam / Eikenweg 29
Fixed location
Yes
Guest policy
Event specific
Frequency
Regular events
Research-verified details
Official site

Dating platforms by local relevance

JOYclub

Dutch pages show clubs, events and dates across the Low Countries, including many Dutch venue listings.

Type
International swinger platform
Local fit
Strong local fit
Couple profiles
Yes
Visit

SDC

International swinger network for Netherlands travellers and local club/event confirmation, especially where venues publish SDC parties or business listings.

Type
Swinger-focused
Local fit
Useful locally
Couple profiles
Yes
Visit

SpicyMatch

Swinger-platform supplement after JOYclub and venue checks; Netherlands activity still needs logged-in confirmation.

Type
Swinger-focused
Local fit
Check local activity
Couple profiles
Yes
Visit

Wyylde

French/European libertine supplement for cross-border readers, but less Netherlands-specific than JOYclub and SDC.

Type
International swinger platform
Local fit
Check local activity
Couple profiles
Yes
Visit

Good to know

Dutch venues often use parenclub, swingersclub or erotic club language. Rules for couples, single men, dress code, reservation and all-inclusive pricing vary sharply by night, and Kasteel Waterloo is announced as closing permanently from 1 April 2026.

How to use this guide

The most useful options are listed first. Always read the venue or organiser’s own page before visiting, because details can change quickly, especially for events, private venues and guest rules.

Affiliate disclosure

Some outbound links may be sponsored. Local usefulness still comes first.

Last checked: 2026-07-07

Where this information comes from

www.joyclub.com

Platform directory (Dutch)

Source type
Platform directory
Last checked
2026-05-29
fun4two.com

Official site (Dutch)

Source type
Official site
Last checked
2026-05-29
www.showboat.eu

Official site (Dutch)

Source type
Official site
Last checked
2026-05-29
www.showboat.eu

Official site (English)

Source type
Official site
Last checked
2026-05-29
dezaar.nl

Official site (Dutch)

Source type
Official site
Last checked
2026-05-29
partyplayers.nl

Official site (Dutch)

Source type
Official site
Last checked
2026-05-29
partyplayers.nl

Official site (Dutch)

Source type
Official site
Last checked
2026-05-29
www.sabayland.nl

Official site (Dutch)

Source type
Official site
Last checked
2026-05-29
www.clublebaron.nl

Official site (Dutch)

Source type
Official site
Last checked
2026-05-29
sameplace.nl

Official site (Dutch)

Source type
Official site
Last checked
2026-05-29
sameplace.nl

Official site (English)

Source type
Official site
Last checked
2026-05-29
club-paradise.nl

Official site (English)

Source type
Official site
Last checked
2026-05-29
club-paradise.nl

Official site (English)

Source type
Official site
Last checked
2026-05-29
eroroma.nl

Official site (Dutch)

Source type
Official site
Last checked
2026-05-29
www.joyclub.com

Platform directory (Dutch)

Source type
Platform directory
Last checked
2026-05-29
www.sdc.com

Platform directory (Dutch)

Source type
Platform directory
Last checked
2026-05-29
parenclub.eu

Directory guide (Dutch)

Source type
Directory guide
Last checked
2026-05-29
parenclub.eu

Directory guide (Dutch)

Source type
Directory guide
Last checked
2026-05-29
parenclub.eu

Directory guide (Dutch)

Source type
Directory guide
Last checked
2026-05-29
liberalmap.com

Directory listing (English)

Source type
Directory listing
Last checked
2026-05-29
www.saunajavali.nl

Official site (Dutch)

Source type
Official site
Last checked
2026-05-30
www.sdc.com

Platform directory (Dutch)

Source type
Platform directory
Last checked
2026-05-29
swingersoase.com

Official site (Dutch)

Source type
Official site
Last checked
2026-05-29
maze.nl

Official site (Dutch)

Source type
Official site
Last checked
2026-05-30
www.joyclub.com

Platform directory (Dutch)

Source type
Platform directory
Last checked
2026-05-29
www.cylex.nl

Directory listing (Dutch)

Source type
Directory listing
Last checked
2026-05-29
samenswingen.nl

Directory guide (Dutch)

Source type
Directory guide
Last checked
2026-05-29
erotischeparties.nl

Directory guide (Dutch)

Source type
Directory guide
Last checked
2026-05-29
www.salir.com

Directory listing (Spanish)

Source type
Directory listing
Last checked
2026-05-29
saunajoe.nl

Official site (Dutch)

Source type
Official site
Last checked
2026-05-29
www.sdc.com

Platform directory (Dutch)

Source type
Platform directory
Last checked
2026-05-29
liberalmap.com

Directory listing (English)

Source type
Directory listing
Last checked
2026-05-29
party40down.nl

Official site (Dutch)

Source type
Official site
Last checked
2026-05-30
party40down.nl

Official site (Dutch)

Source type
Official site
Last checked
2026-05-29
www.cluborganza.nl

Official site (Dutch)

Source type
Official site
Last checked
2026-05-29
thedesire.nl

Official site (English)

Source type
Official site
Last checked
2026-05-30
www.sdc.com

Platform directory (Dutch)

Source type
Platform directory
Last checked
2026-05-29
sdcworldparty.nl

Official site (Dutch)

Source type
Official site
Last checked
2026-05-30
www.sdc.com

Platform directory (English)

Source type
Platform directory
Last checked
2026-05-29
www.sdc.com

Platform directory (English)

Source type
Platform directory
Last checked
2026-05-29
www.vipio.com

Directory listing (English)

Source type
Directory listing
Last checked
2026-05-29
letusbecurious.nl

Official site (Dutch)

Source type
Official site
Last checked
2026-05-30
secretmask.nl

Official site (Dutch)

Source type
Official site
Last checked
2026-05-30
www.sdc.com

Platform directory (Dutch)

Source type
Platform directory
Last checked
2026-05-29
menuweb.menu

Directory listing (English)

Source type
Directory listing
Last checked
2026-05-29
www.innjoy.nl

Official site (Dutch)

Source type
Official site
Last checked
2026-05-29
parenclub.eu

Directory guide (Dutch)

Source type
Directory guide
Last checked
2026-05-29
erotischeparties.nl

Directory guide (Dutch)

Source type
Directory guide
Last checked
2026-05-29
www.yelu.nl

Directory listing (Dutch)

Source type
Directory listing
Last checked
2026-05-29
welovedating.eu

Directory guide (Dutch)

Source type
Directory guide
Last checked
2026-05-29
www.wasteland.nl

Official site (English)

Source type
Official site
Last checked
2026-05-30
crazyland.org

Official site (Dutch)

Source type
Official site
Last checked
2026-05-30
www.crazyland.nl

Official site (Dutch)

Source type
Official site
Last checked
2026-05-29
madamehomard.nl

Official site (Dutch)

Source type
Official site
Last checked
2026-05-30
littlesins.party

Official site (English)

Source type
Official site
Last checked
2026-05-29
littlesins.nl

Official site (Dutch)

Source type
Official site
Last checked
2026-05-29
www.sdc.com

Platform directory (Dutch)

Source type
Platform directory
Last checked
2026-05-29
www.sdc.com

Platform directory (English)

Source type
Platform directory
Last checked
2026-05-29
www.sdc.com

Platform directory (Dutch)

Source type
Platform directory
Last checked
2026-05-30
backt0basic.nl

Official site (Dutch)

Source type
Official site
Last checked
2026-05-30
www.erofeestjes.nl

Official site (Dutch)

Source type
Official site
Last checked
2026-05-30
swingersnest.com

Directory cross-check (English)

Source type
Directory cross-check
Last checked
2026-05-30
www.sdc.com

Platform directory (English)

Source type
Platform directory
Last checked
2026-05-30
sensualplayers.com

Official site (Dutch)

Source type
Official site
Last checked
2026-05-30
www.sdc.com

Platform directory (Dutch)

Source type
Platform directory
Last checked
2026-05-30
edensire.com

Official site (Dutch)

Source type
Official site
Last checked
2026-05-30
partyflock.nl

Ticketing or event platform (Dutch)

Source type
Ticketing or event platform
Last checked
2026-05-30
swingersnest.com

Directory cross-check (English)

Source type
Directory cross-check
Last checked
2026-05-30
www.sdc.com

Platform directory (Dutch)

Source type
Platform directory
Last checked
2026-05-30
partyflock.nl

Ticketing or event platform (Dutch)

Source type
Ticketing or event platform
Last checked
2026-05-30
partyflock.nl

Ticketing or event platform (Dutch)

Source type
Ticketing or event platform
Last checked
2026-05-30
www.sdc.com

Platform directory (Dutch)

Source type
Platform directory
Last checked
2026-05-30
www.sdc.com

Platform directory (Dutch)

Source type
Platform directory
Last checked
2026-05-30
partyflock.nl

Ticketing or event platform (Dutch)

Source type
Ticketing or event platform
Last checked
2026-05-30
www.sdc.com

Platform directory (Dutch)

Source type
Platform directory
Last checked
2026-05-30
www.sdc.com

Platform directory (Dutch)

Source type
Platform directory
Last checked
2026-05-30
partyflock.nl

Ticketing or event platform (Dutch)

Source type
Ticketing or event platform
Last checked
2026-05-30
partyflock.nl

Ticketing or event platform (Dutch)

Source type
Ticketing or event platform
Last checked
2026-05-30
www.cluborganza.nl

Official site (Dutch)

Source type
Official site
Last checked
2026-05-30