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On this page we list pages that each give you a short introduction to a Swedish city, a bit of general swinging advice, and lets you know if there is a swingers club in that city.
If you’d rather go right ahead and get the full list of Swedish swinger clubs you would do best by going here.
We also have a complete list of Norwegian swinger clubs.
This page aims to give you a simple overview of swingers clubs in Sweden. All the clubs have real, physical locations. Swinging is a main activity at every place on the list.

For each club, you will find:
Most of the information comes from swingers websites and online services. I have tried to check that everything is correct. Still, some details might change or need to be checked with the club itself. These places value privacy, so some details, like addresses, might not be public.
All clubs listed here are open as of June 2025. I have not included hotel events, private home parties, or places that are closed for good. Some clubs also have BDSM activities, but they are only in this guide if swinging happens there often.
Tip: Always check the club’s website or contact them before you go. Rules and opening times can change. If the address is not public, I give you the area instead.
The absolute best way to find swingers in Stockholm is by joining huge international platforms like SpicyMatch and SDC (Swingers Date Club). Both sites are very popular among Swedish couples (and singles). These platforms have hundreds of active users in the area. New people are joining all the time.
You’ll find real couples and singles who are genuinely interested in meeting others. You get access to local events, private parties, and online chat rooms. If you’re completely new, you can also read about others’ experiences and ask questions in the forums. You can scroll profiles until your fingers fall off, or filter by city, interest, and type of relationship.
No matter which swedish swingers club you plan to attend, I recommend that you first start out at either SpicyMatch or SDC. Most likely you’ll find someone else that is going to the same club. Often it can be nice to meet up beforehand, and then go to the club together. Feels safer, and it gives you better odds of having a very nice evening.
Location: Central Norrköping, Östergötland
Location: Ryttargatan 3, Solna, Stockholm
Location: Björksgatan 9, 632 21 Eskilstuna
Location: Andra Långgatan 16, 413 28 Göteborg
Location: Kontorsgatan 2, 254 71 Hasslarp
Location: Fridhemsgatan 44, 112 40 Stockholm
Location: Backa Bergögata 2, Hisings Backa, 422 46 Göteborg
Location: Central Malmö, near Mobilia
Location: Höglandet, near Jönköping
Location: Eastern Gothenburg
Location: Gamla Stan, Stockholm (secret location)
If you’re curious about the swingers scene in Oslo, the «Tiger City» (Tigerstaden) offers a reasonably diverse range of options for adults who want to explore swinging. Whether you’re a beginner, or experienced. In Oslo, you’ll find an established club, hundreds of people on digital platforms, and relaxing venues that can easily be included as part of an erotic weekend. Welcome to Oslo!
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In addition to a physical club, there are several digital platforms where you can connect with like-minded people in the Oslo area:
SpicyMatch: A global swingers platform where you can find events and members in Oslo. SpicyMatch has the largest user base in Norway, so you’re likely to find the most potential play partners here. The platform is available both as a website and as an app on Apple’s App Store and Google Play Store.
SDC (Swingers Date Club): An international platform with many Norwegian members. If you’re planning a trip to the U.S., this is the largest app for swinging over there.
Lyst-Club: A Norwegian dating site for liberated couples and singles looking for swinging, partner swapping, and casual sex. Lyst-Club is locally owned and run by passionate enthusiasts. This site is in Norwegian language only, so for swingers not speaking our native language, the other two platforms would be a better choice.
Are you new to the swinging scene?
In that case, we highly recommend starting with one of these websites before heading to a club. Not only is it easier to meet people online, but you’ll also gain valuable insight into how other swingers think, what they’re looking for, and what’s considered acceptable behaviour etc. Even a free, no-strings-attached account gets you started.
Oslo has one active swingers club: Club Fantasy Oslo, located in Sandvika, just 20 minutes from the city center.
The club offers a safe and inclusive environment for couples and singles who want to explore swinging. With modern facilities and regular events, it’s a popular choice for many.
For more detailed information about swingers clubs in Norway, (including Club Fantasy Oslo), you can visit our overview of swingers clubs in Norway.
Note:
If you come across old online references to “VIP Room” in Oslo, be aware that this was a swingers club that was closed down many years ago. It no longer exists. The same goes for the fetish club Cat People and the gentlemen’s club Lamour—both are also permanently closed.
For a relaxing experience, you can visit The Well, the largest spa in the Nordics, located just 15 minutes from downtown Oslo.
With 10,500 m² of pools, saunas, and wellness treatments, it’s the perfect place to recharge before or after an evening in the swingers scene. Please note that The Well has strict rules against sexual activity, and we believe it’s important to respect these in order to maintain a safe and comfortable environment for all guests.
That said, we’ve heard that this hasn’t stopped The Well from being a popular spot among the country’s swingers…
The Well offers pools where nude bathing is optional.
In line with continental spa traditions, nudity is natural and accepted, though not mandatory. The Well also provides unisex saunas, and all their saunas and steam rooms are open to all genders. This aligns with The Well’s philosophy of natural nudity and the European spa culture, where shared saunas are common.
Oslo BDSM often hosts events on Fridays (and occasionally on other days) for those interested in that scene.
Oslo BDSM has its own venue, known as Nonna. Events are announced on the kink platform Fetlife.
If you’re visiting Oslo, there are plenty of activities and places that can easily be combined with a weekend in the swingers scene:
Cultural experiences:
Visit the Oslo Opera House, the Munch Museum, or take a walk along the Akerselva river.
Food and drink:
Enjoy gourmet dining at restaurants like Maaemo, or have a more relaxed dinner at Aker Brygge.
Nightlife:
Explore the city’s bars and clubs. The nightclub/bar Blaze Go-Go Bar may be an option if you enjoy strip shows. Note that the venue has a 25-year age limit.
As Norway’s largest city, Oslo offers a wide and diverse swingers scene for those who are curious. Whether you prefer physical clubs, digital platforms, or a combination of both, there’s always a way to meet other horny and like-minded people. Just remember to respect other, stated boundaries, and to enjoy your experiences in a safe and responsible way.
As of June 07, 2026, there are three swingers clubs in Norway with their own permanent venues. Here’s what you need to know about each of them, including opening times, geograpic locations, prices, rules, and of course direct links to each of them.
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Important notice for international visitors:
– Information about Norway’s online swingers community
– Information on Norwegian swinger clubs alcohol restrictions

Club 4 is the oldest swingers club in Norway and is located in Tiller, just outside of Trondheim. The club offers a wide range of activities, hosting everything from couples-only nights to gangbangs, themed events, and erotic Christmas parties. There are also overnight accommodations available in the lower level of the club.
The club offers several membership options with varying durations and payment structures:
Entrance fees depend on your membership type and whether you are a woman, man, or a couple:
You can pay using:
Club 4’s events take place at their venue Afrodisia, discreetly located at Heggstadmyra 9, surrounded by industrial buildings with no immediate neighbors. The venue spans two floors and includes an outdoor area with a jacuzzi, barbecue, and seating. The club hosts both regular and themed events throughout the year.
Regular Opening Hours:
In addition, the club hosts special themed events such as gangbangs, erotic evenings, BDSM nights, LGBTQ+ nights, holiday meetups between Christmas and New Year, New Year’s parties, dogging events, and more. See their calendar for details.
First Floor:
Second Floor (Main Area):
Erotic Zone Includes:
Club 4 also rents out the venue to private groups, teams, and associations (8–50 people). Entertainment options include strip shows (both male and female performers), nude figure painting, and performances featuring the club’s founder.
When you arrive at Club 4, you’ll be greeted by the hosts at the reception on the second floor. Here, you’ll be registered, given information and a tour if needed, and assigned a key to a locker. The changing area is shared by all genders, and the club is known for its safe and inclusive environment where everyone should feel welcome.
Changing and Hygiene
Showers are available both upstairs and downstairs, and towels and bathrobes are provided free of charge. Personal hygiene is important, and guests are encouraged to shower before and/or during the evening.
Dress Code – or Lack Thereof
Club 4 has no formal dress code, and guests are free to wear whatever they feel comfortable in. Some arrive in regular clothes, others choose to be completely nude, while some borrow bathrobes on site. Many – especially women – opt for sexy, erotic, or provocative outfits, and some wear clothing that reflects their orientation or specific fetish.
In other words, there are no strict requirements, but there is a general expectation that sweatpants and work clothes are left at home. Like all sex clubs, Club 4 appreciates when guests contribute to creating an exciting and sensual atmosphere.
Club4 / Afrodisia’s venue is discreetly located at Heggstadmyra 9.
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Club Fantasy Oslo is an erotic club located in Sandvika, about 12–15 minutes from downtown Oslo. The club opened its doors in May 2024 and has since provided an exciting environment for adults looking to explore their fantasies in a safe and discreet setting.
To attend events at Club Fantasy Oslo, membership is required. New visitors are allowed one trial visit before they need to sign up for a membership. Memberships are available for 6 or 12 months, priced at 800 NOK and 1400 NOK respectively. Women receive a 50% discount on the membership fee. Entrance prices vary depending on membership status and the day of the week, with higher rates for non-members.
KlThe club hosts events three times a week:
Opening hours are from 20:30 to 02:00 on Fridays and Saturdays, with entry between 20:30 and 23:00.
On Sundays, the club is open from 19:00 to 23:00.
Upon arrival, guests are welcomed by a host or hostess, registered, and provided with a locker and membership card. All visitors are expected to change into sexy, erotic, or provocative attire upon entering. Women often choose revealing lingerie or outfits made of latex or leather, while men typically wear a stylish pair of boxers.
Other fetish or daring outfits are also allowed, and full nudity is optional. It’s important to note that simply wearing a towel around the waist is not considered appropriate attire.
The exact address of Club Fantasy Oslo is only provided to registered participants in order to ensure discretion. The club is centrally located in Sandvika, and registration details can be found on their website.
To give a general indication of the club’s location, the following map excerpt may be used:
(See also Google Maps)
For more detailed (and up-to-date) information about club rules, frequently asked questions, prices and memberships, as well as upcoming events, visit Club Fantasy Oslo’s official website: ClubFantasy-Oslo
The site is in Norwegian language, so a translation through your browser or Google Translate might be neccessary.

Club Fantasy is a private erotic club near Tønsberg, offering an inclusive environment for adults who wish to explore their fantasies and meet like-minded people. The club is open to couples, men, and women, and places strong emphasis on safety, respect, and inclusion.
To attend the club’s events, membership is required and is obtained during your first visit. Entrance fees are as follows:
An optional VIP membership is available for 1000 NOK for 6 months and provides a 30% discount on the entrance fee.
Club Fantasy regularly hosts a variety of events for its members. For details about upcoming events and opening hours, it is recommended to visit the club’s official website under the «Kalender/Åpningstider“ (Calendar/Opening Hours) section.
Upon arrival, guests are registered and provided with towels and locker keys.
All visitors must change upon arrival and are encouraged to wear sexy, provocative lingerie, latex, or leather. Men often wear a stylish pair of boxers or briefs, and full nudity is also permitted.
Good hygiene is important, and the club expects all guests to shower as needed. Club Fantasy
The club is located near the E18 at Sem, with a large public parking lot about a one-minute walk from the venue. The exact address of Club Fantasy (Tønsberg) is only provided to registered participants to ensure discretion.
To give a general indication of the club’s location, the following map excerpt may be used:
(Also see Google Maps)
For more detailed (and up-to-date) information about club rules, frequently asked questions, prices and memberships, as well as upcoming events, visit Club Fantasy Oslo’s official website: ClubFantasy-Oslo
As a visiting foreigner, the (by far) best, most efficient, and convenient way to find swingers in Norway is online. The largest swinging platform with the highest number of active members in Norway is SpicyMatch. While there are a few other swinger platforms with Norwegian users, SpicyMatch stands out both for its strong Norwegian presence and for its international reach.
We highly recommend exploring Norway’s online swinger community first, whether or not you plan to visit a club during your stay.
Currently, none of the swingers clubs in Norway hold a liquor license. However, they do allow guests to bring their own alcoholic beverages and are usually helpful in storing your drinks, often in a fridge behind the bar. Some clubs also offer soft drinks and snacks for sale, but they do not serve alcohol.
Although it is permitted to bring alcohol, it’s wise to reflect on how alcohol affects both the atmosphere and the dynamics in a sexual and social setting. A swingers club is a place where respect, communication, and consent are absolutely fundamental. Being under the influence of alcohol reduces your ability to read other people’s signals and to clearly express your own boundaries. It also increases the risk of misunderstandings or boundary violations.
Therefore, most clubs encourage moderation, and many have a zero-tolerance policy toward guests who are visibly intoxicated. In some cases, you may be denied entry or asked to leave if the staff judges that you have had too much to drink, both for your own safety and for the well-being of others.
If you are unsure about your own judgment or memory after consuming alcohol, it might be wise to take a break from sexual activities and instead enjoy the social aspects of the club.
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